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Thank you for visiting Owen's site . Writing the content
on these pages has been therapeutic for us. We hope it gives
you a better understanding to what we are going through and why
this tragedy happened.
Jamie and Sharon:
I came back to your site today when I heard of a friend's friend who'd lost a baby at 39 weeks. I am reminded again how wonderfully strong your love for Owen is and was. I send you both a huge hug, again, and think of you often. I'm sending your link along to my friend's colleague with the hopes that it can bring her strength in this difficult time. This website is a gift you've given not only to Owen, but also to others who go through this. You are amazing.
Jess <jess@jessmcdaniel.com>
- Monday, April 24, 2006 at 17:24:00 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon:
Thank you for sharing your whole story. It is therapeutic and healing, and every time someone reads it there are another couple of prayers that go up to heaven and to Owen. God bless you both. I'm so glad you are strong enough to get through the tragedy. Sharon you are so amazing- I'm so glad you and Jamie found each other. I am so sorry that I won't get to meet Owen and play with him in this life. I love you guys. Here's to another couple of babies for you two! You'll be the best parents-
Love Always, your cousin Becky
Becky <midniitedanger@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 07, 2006 at 17:24:00 (CST)
Dear Jamie and Sharon,
I just read your email from the HELLP syndrome group and followed your link to this site.
My heart is breaking for you both.
I too experienced a normal pregnancy up until 32wks, when I developed HELLP Syndrome. Our son was born 2 lbs 11 ozs and survived (with the help of 7 weeks in the NICU), but reading your story brought back all of the emotions of those very scary days…which were only 11 weeks ago.
The two of you are such brave people, and this website is an absolute gorgeous tribute to a very strong and beautiful boy who is up in heaven right now eating all the ice cream he wants (cause you can do that as a newborn in heaven).
I can understand your apprehension with your new pregnancy after all you've gone through. When your body rejects your child, and then begins to reject you, without any warning and for no apparent reason, you begin to question the world. I know that I do.
If you ever need to just vent or talk please write me. I don't know how much I can help, or make things better, but I can just tell you that I understand, and everything you are thinking and feeling is valid.
Please stay strong, and I will pray for your second child to be the happiest, healthiest and strongest baby ever.
Peace,
Tara
Tara Hammond <t_piet@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 30, 2006 at 11:55:51 (CST)
I am so very sorry for all you went through and the loss of your precious Owen. My heart broke for you as I read your tribute to Owen. I also had Hellp syndrome and delived last month. It was very touch and go for me as I am older. Still having pain and B/P problems a month later.
This is all so hard to go through.
God bless you and give you strength.
Hugs,
Jeanne & Matt
Jeanne and Matthew
- Monday, January 30, 2006 at 11:40:49 (CST)
Jamie + Sharon : The loss of your son, Owen leaves me at a loss for words each visit I make to this beautiful tribute. A life so precious, a life filled with so much love, a life so fragile; is a life that will live on in the memory of so many. Your strength as individuals, your boundless love for each and for Owen is a true inspiration and will remain a constant reminder of how very precious life is.
Jen + Kevin <email@jlopardo.com>
- Tuesday, December 20, 2005 at 12:24:55 (CST)
Dear Sharon and Jamie, Thank you so much for letting us into your world at such a painful moment of life. The web page is a beautiful tribute to your little son. I think of Dr. Kuebler Ross's quote "The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." You are indeed, "beautiful people". I am so sorry for your loss. Carol O'Connor
Carol O'Connor <caroloco@aol.com>
- Friday, December 09, 2005 at 09:39:37 (CST)
Your inner strength and boundless love for Owen inspire us more than you will ever know. You keep our spirits strong even after such tragedy. Our hearts are always, always with you and Owen.
Anthony and Julian
- Monday, December 05, 2005 at 12:57:39 (CST)
Owen, is so beautiful. You created such a beautiful memorial page for him. It broke my heart to read your story. I lost Ashley at 38wks and your story brings back a lot of memories for me. I want you to know you are both in my thoughts and prayers. I know our angels are together in heaven.
Katrina-Ashley Rose's Mom <martymcfly41267@hotmail.com>
- Friday, December 02, 2005 at 12:43:57 (CST)
Sharon and Jamie, I am so sorry for your loss. Owen is a lucky boy to have parents who clearly loved him so deeply, so completely. Your site is by far one of the greatest tributes I've seen to your son. Your writing about everything that has happened is so eloquent. I pray you both find peace and comfort where you seek it.
Heidi ^Koen's^ mom (babycenter) <hskemp@canada.com>
- Friday, December 02, 2005 at 09:31:57 (CST)
Sharon and Jamie~
I sit here tonight in tears after reading your story of Owen. I've looked though your photographs and it is very evident that you love Owen deeply. The beautiful nursery, the details...it's all so wonderful. I am so sorry that he isin't here in your arms today, but someday you'll embrace again and this time it will be forever. Stay strong and hold on to one another.
Charro from Babycenter
Mom to 3 who run and 4 who soar.
Charro <3whorun4whosoar@comcast.net>
- Thursday, December 01, 2005 at 23:13:14 (CST)
Our hearts and prayers are with you both. Kristin and I love the two of you very much and are blessed to know such wonderful people. Your strength and love is an inspiration to us all. The web site is very special and full of your love. You are in our prayers.
Love Paul and Kristin Klin
Paul & Kirstin Klin <paulklin@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 27, 2005 at 12:30:57 (CST)
Dear Sharon and Jamie,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We cannot even imagine what you went through. Thank you for the beautiful website. We wish you all the best.
Regards,
Arti & Rajesh
Arti & Rajesh Khare
- Sunday, November 20, 2005 at 18:25:36 (CST)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jamie and Sharon. Thank you for sharing this amazing website with us. It is truly a great tribute to Owen.
Steven and Danielle Pray <dapsrp@fuse.net>
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 at 12:36:50 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon,
By sharing your words with us Owen has touched and will always live in so many hearts. I admire the courage and strength in both of you to be able to create this moving tribute.
Lauren Voce <laurenvoce@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 at 12:20:39 (CST)
You have shown amazing courage, strength and fortitude during this very difficult time.We are inspired by your positive attitudes. Owen Henry will always hold a very special place in our hearts. We love you both very much.
Grandma and Granpa Reiley <annereiley@aol.com>
- Wednesday, November 16, 2005 at 08:57:48 (CST)
Dear Sharon and Jamie,
after learning this morning what happend to you and your son Owen, I've been thinking about you all day. I can't even come close to imagine what you are going through. I am so sorry. It is hard to find the right words, however i want to share with you that 50 years ago my parents lost their first born as well--he only lived for several hours. I grew up knowing I had another older brother and I often wondered what he would have been like. He always was part of our family and he will never be forgotten. Neither will Owen be forgotten--he will always be in your hearts. Thinking of you, best Jorg
Jorg <jorg@sametz.com>
- Monday, November 14, 2005 at 20:15:16 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon: Joerg shared with me today your ordeal with losing your son. I am so sorry for your tragedy and will remember the three of you in my prayers. I can't help but believe that Owen needed very little time here to complete his spiritual journey; know that the Heavens thank you for bringing him here and letting him go. God Bless.
Stephen Syta (joerg's partner)
- Monday, November 14, 2005 at 14:53:04 (CST)
What a wonderful website in honor of a beautiful boy who was just "too perfect" for this world. Sharon and Jamie, I admire your strength and courage. Your love for each other and your ability to allow yourselves to begin to heal are amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. Know that I am thinking of you. Love, Tara
Tara Burke <tburke75@hotmail.com>
- Monday, November 14, 2005 at 13:31:08 (CST)
Sharon and Jamie, this is a beautiful site, what a perfect way for you to honor Owen's memory. I was terribly saddended to hear the news of your loss. We continue to say prayers for you at my house. Owen is your angel and he will keep watch over you and make sure you are alwasy safe. Love Kimberley
Kimberley <kbiancheri@meditech.com>
- Monday, November 14, 2005 at 06:56:13 (CST)
To the loving family of Owen Henry:
Beannacht from the Anam Cara, by John O'Donohue
On the day when the weight deadens on your shoulder
And you stumble,
May the clay dance to balance you.
And when your eyes freeze behind the grey window
And the ghost of loss gets into you,
May a flock of colours, indigo, red, green and azure blue
Come to awaken in you a meadow of delight.
When the canvas frays in the curach of your thought
And a stain of ocean blackens beneath you,
May there come across the waters
A path of yellow moonlight to bring you safely home.
May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
may the clarity of the light be yours,
may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
may the protection of the ancestors be yours.
And so may a slow wind work these words of love around you,
An invisible cloak to mind your life.
Betsy Shea-Taylor <prosewing@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 13, 2005 at 20:04:37 (CST)
Sharon & Jamie,
Your faith, love, and strength are inspiring. Thank you both for sharing your story and Owen with us. This site is truly a great honor to him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
-Wendy & Lou
Wendy Nucci <wendy.nucci@comcast.net>
- Sunday, November 13, 2005 at 17:20:03 (CST)
Dear Sharon and Jamie,
A nursing school classmate of mine sent this website out in the hope that it would give us a tiny glimpse into the pain involved in the loss of a baby. Your pain and your love for one another and for Owen are evident in your postings -- they are a gift to all who read them. I truly admire your strength through this and applaude your ability to draw together rather than pull away from each other in this most difficult time. It is obvious from your site that you will take all the lessons you can from this, grow with and from them and continue to be a gift to this world. You will never forget your first child but you will heal. I wish you all the best.
Beth Young <thonlygrl@verizon.net>
- Sunday, November 13, 2005 at 13:03:35 (CST)
J & S -
I've just found my quiet moment to sit and read every word of this incredible honor you've paid to Owen. What a gift you give to him and to those that love you, by offering us the opportunity to walk with you through what you've been through. Love you dearly ~ Rachel & Mike
Rachel & Michael <rkelso33@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 12, 2005 at 13:08:18 (CST)
My precious friends Jamie and Sharon. there are know words that I know of on this planet to let you know how I felt when I heard of your loss. May God keep your hearts in his hand the rest of your lives and guide you on the rest of your journey through life. If you ever feel like chatting please get in touch with me . You will always be in my prayers. Love Camille
Camille Tortora <Camille@sametz.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 14:56:21 (CST)
Our hearts and prayers are with you during this sad time in your lives. This is a remarkable site (and funny at times, humor is good for the heart) that is so full of love and strength. Your an inspiration on how love can help heal the not so good experiances a couple can have. I love you two!
Carmen and Corey <carmen_rene@hotmail.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 13:21:29 (CST)
I was so upset when you called with the news. I have been saying prayers for you, Jamie and Owen. I'm so glad you have been such a great support to eachother. Little Owen will make the best guardian angel to your future babies. Love you.
Sarah <slb75@comcast.net>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 13:14:30 (CST)
Sharon and Jamie,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the death of Owen. I am profoundly touched by the sadness of your experience, and by your strength and grace in facing it. Please know that I am thinking about you and wishing you comfort and peace.
Gretchen Ellison <gretchen@enchantedweddingcakes.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 11:58:13 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon:
We are both very sorry for your loss and all that you have been through. I genuinely don't know any two other people that are in our age group that are better suited to be parents than both of you. It was both encouraging and marvelous to see how close and strong your relationship has grown over the course of this last year. I know that when the time comes, you have the parenting skills (gifts) that other parents only aspire to have and may never obtain. We are very grateful to have you as our friends.
George and Michelle Lough <GeorgeLough@Gmail.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 11:23:44 (CST)
Hi,
I don't know you but I am a friend of Camille's and she sent me your web site. I am so sorry for your loss. This site is a great thing to help you get through it. You will never get over your loss but this will help you except it just a little easier. (if that is possible) I wish you both the best. You will be in my prayers. Val
Val Connors <vconnors@ec.rr.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 10:54:26 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon,
All our love goes out to you, we will keep you and Owen in our prayers. The love and courage you both have shown is nothing short of amazing. With deepest sympathy, Kristen and David
Kristen and David <falconkl@hotmail.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 10:41:24 (CST)
I am so sorry. I truly admire your strength and courage that it must have taken to get through this traumatic experience. I wish I could be there to give you both a big hug in the hopes that one more hug might make it all a little easier to cope with. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you Sharon, Jamie, Owen.
Susan <subwaysue2u@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 11, 2005 at 08:36:17 (CST)
You have once again shown how amazing you are together and as individuals. I stand in humble awe at your strength and courage to be able to share your experience so poignantly.
I will always remember this time as one of great sorrow, as well, but I will also remember something that to this day makes me tear up: at the end of the baptism service, when the family had left the chapel, you two put your arms around me and said you hoped I never had to go through this experience with anyone again in my ministry. I do not know how you found the inner reserves to comfort ME that way.
Blessings and peace to you with love!
Rev. Ruth <revruthucc@verizon.net>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 21:32:23 (CST)
To our dear friends Sharon and Jamie, please know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. We love you and are always here for you. – Jodie and John
Jodie and John Penn <njjode@mac.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 21:00:49 (CST)
I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you both the best.
Jaryn <jarynleigh@gmail.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 19:07:07 (CST)
Your strength and love for each other and your son is awe inspiring. What wonderful parents you have been to Owen, what a beautiful tribute you have created in his honor. May you always sense his spirit through the smiles of children, and the wingspans of dragonflies.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses to you both,
Jocelyn
Jocelyn <jocelynalmy@tshell.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 19:02:09 (CST)
"Love is composed of single soul inhabiting two bodies"
Aristotle
This we believe best defines Owen Henry Reiley.
With all of our love and prayers,
David & Vicki Leventhal
Vicki and David Leventhal
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 18:50:36 (CST)
To my best friend, and his absolutely wonderful,strong wife. You have done an amazing job letting us into a very special, and difficult part of your life. We feel honored to read this story, and our hopes and prayers are always with you, and Owen.
Ray and Kristen Martel <marteljr@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 18:22:00 (CST)
I am sending every possible bit of love & good energy through to you both. You are an amazing couple and an inspiration to all others who must endure this situation. I am sure you will be blessed again very soon. My deepest sympathy.
Kate <kconvery25@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 18:07:03 (CST)
Guys, I am so sorry this had to happen to you both. This website is a beautiful tribute. I know that you both are going through a lot right now and it comforts me to know that you are working through the tough times by creating this website. I'll keep you both and your families in my prayers.
love,
Jude
Jude Killion <fireworks7@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 17:39:16 (CST)
I hold a place in my prayers for you two as you move through and beyond this tough time. Thanks for sharing all of this with us.
Erika Salloux <erikasalloux@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 17:06:35 (CST)
Thank you for sharing your strength and love with us all. I feel so blessed to know you. xo
Emilie Sommer <photo@emilieinc.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 16:46:40 (CST)
What a beautiful tribute to Owen. Kayla and I talk with him in our prayers and with a smile, each night, we're able to say good night - he lives on in our hearts and in our prayers! We love you both so much!
Theresa Flaherty <beetlefly2000@gmail.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 16:27:07 (CST)
Jamie and Sharon,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your families. Your faith and confidence in each other is a true inspiration.
jeff <jeff@tshell.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 16:22:49 (CST)
Owen lives on by becoming part of you, and this website shows that.
Jason Abdullah
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 16:14:25 (CST)
What a beautiful website for a beautiful little soul. I love it. Your words are so touching. Thank you so much for sharing!
Kristin <kristinstudio@mac.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 15:57:28 (CST)
You two are the most amazing people I know. We feel truly blessed that you are part of our lives.
We Love you!
Shelby and Steve
Shelby and Steve Sharp <ssharp@foodbuy.com>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 15:45:08 (CST)
The two of you have been an insiration to Hania and I. You have turned a very painful thing into a tribute to a life, regardless how short lived, that will live forever in the hearts of all of us.
Chris and Hania <hkhuri@comcast.net>
- Thursday, November 10, 2005 at 15:41:31 (CST)
You two are amazing, he will forever be in your heart and thank you for sharing. Much Love
Becca
Becca Leonard <becca@1stopdesign.com>
wilmington, ma USA - Wednesday, November 09, 2005 at 14:16:30 (CST)
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